ADOPTION UPDATE: (Dec. 2019)
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ADOPTION UPDATE: (Oct. 2017)
“So, do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Isaiah 41:10
It’s with a sad and heavy heart that I write this update. As I stated in my previous update, nothing was set in stone for our adoption of this baby boy that is due later this month (Oct. 20).
Unfortunately, through matters that are outside of our control, thing have changed in regard to our pending adoption and the child we were matched with will no longer be moving forward. This is a hard time for Heidi and I, and we ask for your prayers. We were excited to add to our family. And like any child a couple is expecting, we started to have hopes and dreams for this child, even though we knew anything could happen.
With this adoption now not going through, it is like we lost a child. There is grief, anger, and frustration over the way things have transpired. But at the center of all of this is still a child. Please pray not only for Heidi and I, but also this child. Please pray that he is given a loving home and the care and nurture he needs and deserves. And please keep Heidi & me in your prayers, as we continue in our adoption journey and long to be matched with another child.
As the psalmist reminds us, “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.” (Psalm 46:1). Amid all of this we turn to our Lord Jesus, trusting in Him and His timing. If you know of any who is considering adoption for their child, please share our name with them or have them contact Bethany Christian Services.
God has put adoption on our hearts and that calling has continued to grow stronger. It is something Heidi and I have considered even before we had children of our own. For those who aren’t aware, I was adopted by the man I call my father, John Yaw. To have experienced the love of someone who wanted me as his son is indescribable and unbelievable; and I wasn’t always an easy son to love. But I know and want to share that same love with not only my current children, but with whoever else the Lord desires to bring into our family. God has opened many doors and answered prayers, and we are confident that The Lord has a plan for us as an adoptive family.
We believe that just as God has adopted us through His Son, Jesus Christ (Ephesians 1:5) loving us unconditionally, we have a calling in our lives to extend that same unconditional love. God’s Word also calls us to care for widows and orphans. God has been working in our hearts through this process, and we are trusting in His will in our family planning.
We are currently working with Bethany Christian Services and have just submitted our formal application and first payment. Up next for the Yaw Family is a home study where we work with a social worker that will evaluate, educate, and prepare us for adoption.
Sadly, one of the areas we’ve wrestled with, and almost every adoptive family struggles with, is the finances. As a matter of fact, while 38% of practicing Christians have seriously considered adoption, only 5% actually adopt, primarily because of the financial component. The majority of those 5% who do adopt need some form of financial assistance to do so.
There is an old proverb, “It takes a village to raise a child.” This is especially true when it comes to adoption. As we begin this journey we do so with much joy and with eager hearts and ask for your support along the way – be our village.
While we will be pursuing grants and looking into loans we can’t apply for some of these financial helps until our home study is complete and there are costs that come before then. If you are so willing please consider helping us out one of the following ways:
Prayer
- Please keep the Yaw family in prayer as we prepare our home to welcome another child into it.
- Pray for the birth mother who chose life for her child and the desire to give her child to a forever home.
- Pray for our journey in securing funds.
Financial Support
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If
you feel it in your heart, please consider giving a donation to help us out.
All donations through this page are Tax Deductible.
Share Our Story with Family & Friends
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Do
you know a birthmother looking for a family for her child?
Please share our name and information as a prospective family.
- Please share with everyone you know so that they too can support us through prayers and any other possible means.
Every prayer and donation is important and will help make this adoption a success. Would you kindly consider making a donation and keeping our family in your prayers? Also, we would appreciate your willingness to share this with others who may want to participate.
Thank you so much for being a part of our lives and helping accomplish something that's important to all of us! May God bless us all throughout this journey.